About
BELIEF #1
Parents shape the tone of the relationship — even when kids are grown.
Your influence must shift from control to respectful support, guided by maturity and love.
BELIEF #2
There’s always hope — and grace for you, too.
You won’t do it perfectly, but progress and prayer make a big difference.
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BELIEF #3
Faith and prayer change what we can’t.
God redeems relationships and uses every prayer and act of love.
I'm Kathy
Most people know me as a mom, a wife, and a coach for parents of adult children. But really? I’m just like you — learning, growing, and trusting God one day at a time.
I believe we are more than the mistakes behind us or the struggles in front of us. There’s hope for your heart and your family, and it’s never too late for healing and deeper connection.
Come walk this journey with me — let’s trade guilt and fear for grace, growth, and a love that lasts.
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My StoryÂ
The daughter of loving but imperfect parents, I grew up believing that if I just worked hard, kept the peace, and did everything “right,” life — and my family — would turn out fine.
I carried this belief into motherhood, pouring my heart into raising my children the best way I knew how. But like so many parents, I discovered that even our best intentions can’t control every outcome — and sometimes, life takes heartbreaking turns.
When my son struggled with addiction, my carefully built world was turned upside down. And the struggles I faced with my daughter forced me to look within myself and ask hard questions: What did I need to learn, change, and mature in?
It was in those messy, refining seasons that God gently showed me that real love requires courage, healthy boundaries, surrender, and grace — for my children, and for myself.
That journey changed me forever. Now, my greatest calling is to help other parents of adult children break free from guilt, fear, and old patterns so they can build healthy, hope-filled relationships and live in the freedom Christ offers.
If you’re ready to trade worry for trust and walk in grace with your adult child, I’m here to walk alongside you.
Every family has a story. With grace and growth, yours can be one of healing and deeper connection.
Emily
When I first read Kathy’s Instagram post, I knew God crossed our paths! I am currently estranged from my adult child. My media feeds had somehow become full of “therapists” promoting no contact with parents….so discouraging and guilt producing. Even though I was praying and reading some healthy, healing books, my naturally introverted self felt so alone. Kathy’s scripture based and personal experience posts are so encouraging and prompted me to learn from her resources of Uncovered Grace and Grace Restored. It’s comforting to know I’m not alone! I’m so thankful for all the resources provided to help me learn how to work on what I can control and see once again the power of prayer and our God.....and to be in community with others interested in learning, healing and growth!"
